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Curious who else on here is making it up as they go. No agenda, just checking it’s not just me.

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Botley · since June

Anyone going to the thing at the pub on Friday? I need at least one person I know there so I have someone to make eye contact with when the conversation dies.

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Headington · since June

Looking for someone who actually goes outside. Not "yeah I love hiking" followed by three months of not hiking.

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Iffley · since June

CW: vent / heavy day. Does anyone know a good queer-friendly GP near Cowley?

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